mr cheesy

FLIRT SCHOOL DO'S & DO'S



Looking back at my past male conquests (I'm kidding!), I analyse how I managed to get them interested in me. To flirt successfully is sometimes harder than science. Reading through my 10.000 different magazines, I go through the flirting rules to see if I did the following:

	Smile
	Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the easiest things you can do to make yourself instantly attractive - and approachable - is to smile. [ ]

Look at him
Harvard psychologist Zick Rubin discovered that when deeply in love, couples look at each other when talking, and are slower to look away when someone else joins the conversation. Simply lock eyes with the person you fancy and keep them there, even when they've finished talking or someone else joins in. This way he'll know that you're more interested in him than the other person. [X]

Match his movements
Mirroring someone's body language is the single most effective tool in your Flirting Box. All you need to do is match or imitate his gestures and movements. If he crosses his legs, cross yours. We like people who are like us. If someone is mirroring our behaviour, we sense they're on the same level. We feel both accepted and flattered. [ ]

	Listen
	Listen to what he's saying. Being heard will make him feel interesting. And if you make him feel good, he's going to want to stick around. [X]

	Touch him
	Touch is the number one instant bonder. The briefest touch can have an electric effect on how somebody feels about you. [ ] Compliments

Compliments work wonders on you, don't they? Flirting,involves feeling good about yourself and making others feel good. [ ] Isn't that interesting, according to the flirting rules i missed out on 3 and yet, I still succeeded - or? Guess there are no clear flirting rules to follow.

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Here are a few cheesy pick up lines for those moments our lack of repertoir within charm is on minus:

'Are we near the airport or is that just my heart taking off?'

'Did you hear the latest health report? You've got to up your intake of vitamin me.'

'You must be Jamaican, because Ja-makin-me crazy!' (my personal favorite!!)

'Can I borrow your library card? I wanna check you out!'


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